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I was sooo not going to say anything about this.
I really tried to stay away from the drama as much as I possibly could, but people were asking about my opinion on this so I just have to speak up.
My point of view on this might be very different from everyone else’s though, so consider yourself warned.
First and foremost, I want to say that I am in this fandom for Rob and Rob only.
That being said, I can also admit that -while I care for him deeply, e.g. if someone hurts him, let it be physically or emotionally- I am also fairly certain that he is a grown man (I mean, look at him!!) and can handle difficult situations the way adults should be able to and will see fit. That’s right, the way HE will see fit. Not the way we will see fit or anyone else really, the way HE thinks this situation needs to be handled.
As you all know I was not interested whether or not him and the Stew were getting it on in the first place (to quote a very dear RAoR Angel: “I don’t care who he bangs as long as he is not banging me.”) because I simply believe that we can adore Rob all we want (even when he is taken), but he is still human and thus deserves the privacy any other human has or should have!
And I am applying this rule to this situation aswell.
I don’t really care too much about whether or not KStew cheated on Rob. Well I do actually care for his emotional damage that will surely result from that but at the end of the day, we’re just fans. We can’t do more than feel sorry for him or pity him or whatever, ya know? [On a side note: as someone who has been cheated on I can assure you that pity is the least you need. But maybe that's just my personal take on things.]
Long Story Short: I will still love Rob, no matter if he decides to forgive the Stew or not. No matter if he becomes the type of guy who bangs everything with tits and at least 3 holes to fill (as a result of the disappointment). No matter what he does, I will be his fan. The only thing I dearly hope is that he learned a lesson from this…
As for the Stew… Well I can’t take a girl seriously who cheated on her ex-bf (the Oregano) with her current/maybe soon ex-bf (Rob) and then again -if the rumours are true, because I haven’t had the nerve or interest to figure that one out yet- cheats on Rob (HOW FUCKING STUPID CAN SHE BE TO CHEAT ON ROB?! WE ARE TALKING ABOUT ROBERT FUCK-ME-HARD-PLEASE PATTINSON HERE!!) with that dood who could be her dad. Not to mention is married. And has two kids.
That is all I am going to say about this.
Sooo this is my take on things. You can love me or hate me for it, but that’s not necessarily going to change my opinion.
Last but not least I want to remind you that TCS blog was always intended to be and will forever be a sanctuary for all of us Robh00rs, to get away from the drama and rumours and everything. And that’s what I want to keep up. So please let us leave the drama by the door before we step in and remember that it’s called PERSONAL LIFE for a reason.
Rob, if you need someone to cheer you up feel free to give me a call,
So much has been said about this. Who am I to judge when I’m also human bound to make mistakes.But,,I don’t approve of what she did.
Well said Bleriana! Rob fans will be Rob fans. It’s her loss, and she’s shown herself to be the complete opposite of the person so many Twilight fans felt that they idolised. I for one didn’t have that great an opinion of her to start with, but I won’t muddy the site with that sort of talk. I’ll just say this – RECOUP ROB! RECOUP! ;D
True TMM and Blerianna! I can’t believe she was foolish to even entertain cheating on HHH????? WTF is in her head when all the free world’s woman would love to have Rob!
Hear, hear.
What KStew needs to realize is that there are millions of women just waiting for her to fuck up so they can take her place. I’m still on the fence. I don’t wan to believe anything right now but there again how can one not? I kinda just want to bury my head in the sand. If it is true, I feel for Rob mostly but also Liberty and the kids. As they are the ones that are going to hurt the most. And I know the paps are going to hunt him down just to see his reaction to the incident. That’s going to piss me off. I’m with you B. Rob if you need some comfort I’m sure there are maaaaaany shoulders you could cry on. Mine being one of them. I wish him nothing but happiness, whether it’s Kristen or whoever.
Kristen has no regards for the man that she respect and love the most as she claimed in her apology.her love for Rob is not enough to stopped her from cheating on him with a married man with children and twice her age.she humiliated him the whole universe knows about it.why she did it if she is not happy with Rob broke up with him then she can have every married man in hollywood.feel sorry for Rob cheating is a no no to him.only Rob forgiveness can help her clean her tarnish image and reer.what she did wont not be forgotten
That’s the point, Respect for whom? Cheating on 2 BF. Public figure values
If this an example to follow up, our future is damned.
Young ones, Don’t do to others what you don’t want others to do to you.
Total shock and awe, but I totally agree. Everyone knows that he is an extremely private person to begin with… I just feel horrible for him. I was cheated on as well – and couldn’t imagine the extreme pressure of having to handle it in front of millions of people.
I am not judging if the rumor is true or not and if it is it’s Rob’s choice how he handles it. If she did cheat on Rob, she is the most stupid female on earth!! I agree with you B, he is a grown man and can handle it. ( of course if needs a little cheering up I would be happy to help him out)
My biggest thought on this is: If he forgives her he may come out of this looking like a whipped pup, if he doesn’t he may look like a hard ass. I feel like she put him in a position where he may not be able to win. I just want him to follow his heart and be happy!
I agree with you completely my dear. I tolerated her, because of him. Now, not so much. She is the stupidest woman on the planet right now, but whatever. I only want Rob to do what he wants to do. He deserves better, and always has.
I want him to makes movies, music, and be happy.
You hit the nail on the head, bb…..I just can’t get over how stupid she was, and the way she did it! In the back seat of a car? How old are we, 15?
Anyway, I love and support Rob in whatever he does, and I think most of his fans feel the same way. I hope he realizes how much his fans are rooting for him, especially in the middle of this clusterf*ck storm that KStew has brought upon him!
Thanks for allowing us a place to comment (and vent).
xoSus
Spoken like two my my ole’ RAoR H00R pals!
I’ll continue to support Rob no matter what! He is the object of our Lust, affection, attention and why we love Twilight!
It is not our place to judge…. Mistakes were made, I believe as fans we have the right to be upset for them, but the people who are not eating, crying all the time & can’t read fic have more issues that need to be addressed other than R&K.
EXACTLY!!!!!!!!!!!!
Amen sister! My thoughts exactly.
Yup, i soooo much agree with you. Ive not said much at all on twitter about this. I do want to say hear that, did anyone really think that they were gonna be together forever?
They are young for one, and two, this is hollywood. No one stays together in hollywood. Everyone is kissing and fake fucking when they act. I think thats a big problem right there for actors.
For the people who are all into this mess, really? Let the 4 of them handle their business.
xxoo. Leave them be…
Well said B. Couldn’t agree with you more!
Well said B. I feel bad for Rob and I think KStew is one stupid young woman. But, they are adults and will hopefully work this out. As for Mr. older-director-guy, I think he should suffer just as much backlash as KStew. What a sad way for her to FINALLY publicly admit her love for Rob.
*slipped shoes off to keep the drama trash out* **Bouncy, Boob Jiggling Claps to you B!!! That is spot on awesome post today. I agree with you!
Nice posting “B”, and I agree with you. Whatever Rob decides to do, we will all still be his fans and love him no matter what happens.
Why do people (Kristen) who have everything (top money, hit movies, fame, dating sexiest man on the planet) always want more? I don’t get it. I heard Rob moved out and is heartbroken and angry. He deserves better. So sad.
B… Good post. And it’s all been said above. It’s their private lives to deal with. But with a man 19 years older than her? Daddy issues? I am just glad that it’s FINALLY come out so Rob can move on. I feel such pain for him & the family cheated on. After being cheated on myself and counseled many others, it’s reaaly a method to avoid problems at home, running away. So its a sad way to end a relationship for everyone involved, even in Hollywood.
perhaps rob should take kristen in the “red room of pain” for some major punishment for being bad and dumb…and then, liberty ross should give the “ass-troll” husband the super-duper, mega, uber “elena” treatment! i don’t condone what kristen and the “ass-troll” did but i blame him mostly. he’s 41, old enough to be her dad, married with 2 kids. he should have known better (but then again, i don’t know the whole truth but he deserves the “bitch-troll”/elena treatment).
B, I fucking love you for this!
Bleriana, are you SURE you’re only 20-something? This might be the most mature and compassionate thoughts I have read on this unfortunate subject.
Also appreciated eewee333′s observation: ‘What a sad way for her to FINALLY publicly admit her love for Rob.’ Maybe too little too late.
My heart is certainly with Rob, I hope for the best for him, however he decides to handle this.
Baby, you can say it louder but not clearer… amen, amen, amen. I haven´t got anything more to say. A huge kiss for you, and I hope your holidays to be amazing